Questions That Question My Reality
I’ve been sitting with a few uncomfortable thoughts lately.
Not motivational quotes. Not “dream big” slogans.
Real questions that quietly disturb the way I see the world.
Here’s one:
Can reality be created?
If I’m honest, no. I don’t create reality.
I participate in it, I make choices.
Those choices narrow probabilities.
And from that narrowing, a version of reality emerges.
So maybe the better question is:
Am I creating reality… or tuning into one?
Tuning Into Abundance
If abundance is everywhere; opportunities, ideas, connections, capital, leverage; then why do some people break through and others stay stuck?
Maybe abundance isn’t scarce. Maybe perception is.
Maybe we don’t “build” abundance. We tune into it.
But how?
Through decisions.
What problems do I choose to see?What rooms do I choose to enter?What standards do I choose to hold?What risks am I willing to absorb?
Every choice shifts the frequency.
Small thinking tunes you into small constraints.
Expansive thinking tunes you into larger fields of play.
Which brings me to the next uncomfortable question:
What Does “Think Big“ Actually Mean?
Everyone says: think big.
But how big is big? Is it 2x? 10x? 100x?
Or is “big” relative to the identity you currently hold?
For someone earning ₹10 lakh, ₹1 crore feels big.
For someone earning ₹10 crore, ₹100 crore feels normal.
So maybe “big” isn’t a number. Maybe it’s discomfort.
Big is the size of the idea that stretches your current identity.
Big is the goal that forces you to become someone else to achieve it.
If the vision doesn’t demand a new version of you, it isn’t big enough.
How Far Do We Stretch?
Here’s the tension:
Stretch too little; you stagnate.
Stretch too much; you fracture.
So where’s the line?
Maybe growth isn’t about stretching infinitely.
Maybe it’s about calibrated expansion.
Stretch. Stabilize. Integrate. Then stretch again.
Expansion without integration creates chaos.
Integration without expansion creates decay.
The rhythm matters.
A Harder Question
If reality emerges from choices, and abundance is accessible through alignment…Then what am I tolerating that is tuning me into a smaller life?
Smaller conversations.
Smaller rooms.
Smaller risks.
Smaller expectations of myself.
The uncomfortable truth is this:
Most limitations are not imposed. They are selected.
Not consciously. But repeatedly.
Where I’m Landing (For Now)
I don’t think we create reality from nothing.
I think we:
ChooseActPersistAnd align ourselves with probabilities
And eventually, one of those probabilities crystallizes into what we call “my life.”
The deeper question isn’t:
“How do I create abundance?”
It’s:
What version of myself would naturally inhabit an abundant reality?
And am I willing to become him?
What questions question your reality?